double reverse

Having been in a relationship for ten years, I can't say that my moves are the smoothest when it comes to picking up ladies, but I did have what I think was a novel idea to try and break through the panty barrier if things seem to be stalled after a few/several dates.

Tell the girl you think you're falling in love, but you have to break up. That way, if she is looking for the whole love thing - you're in. BUT - if she prefers the stand off hard to get strategy, you are also in.

If this is a time honored secret that I just wasn't in on, please let me know.